A Better Way to Buy Gear - Help Needed


** this is a Sale-Process question... not a Gear question**

Hi All:

I intend to upgrade my stereo this year and have located an item that I want to purchase. Unfortunately, there is a ‘snag’ -- the seller insists on receiving the money before I get to see the item.

With this introduction, I would greatly appreciate knowing your individual/collective experience and advice.  Perhaps there is a solution!

 

About the Sale-Process:

The seller accepts only cash or PayPal Family & Friends:  He gets the money before I get the item. 

Because I would be without PP Buyer Protection, I would be stuck with any/all repair(s).

 

About the item:

The item is sealed in a box (NOS), so I cannot

    1. determine if it was damaged during shipping (to his house),
    2. power-up the unit and demo/confirm the functions. 
    3. verify the cosmetic appearance of the item
    4. verify that the correct item is in the box!
    5. Condition is advertised = 11/10

The item is big, heavy and expensive.  I have seen a photo of the box, but there is no meaningful information visible in that photo (e.g. company, make, model).

 

Additional information:

The seller lives in another State, a long way from my location.  A visit would involve a flight (or a long drive) and day or two in a hotel.  

The seller has a 95% rating. 

To me, a good rating means that I am willing to engage with a seller, but it does NOT justify sending the money without verifying the item’s existence/condition.

 

My question:

Because I am not inclined to send cash up-front, is there a better way forward for this ‘money-before-gear’ type of sale?

 

Thanks in advance for your replies, and happy listening!

inagroove

Summary:

One final update, and thanks for the feedback.

My new ARC 6SE Preamp now has 70+ hours of use, and the tubes are breaking-in.  During the first ~50 hours, the unit sounded good, but not too different than the sound of my Ayre preamp (in fact, not as good as the Ayre in a couple of regards). 

During the past 20 hour of use, the 6SE's tone, attack, decay and staging have all improved.  This 'new' sound is very engaging, even compelling. 

Is the new preamp worth the Odessey to get it?  Las week I would have said "maybe", but now I am glad I made the trip.

Regards to all,

 

 

"--all the guys on page 1 that were sure this was a scam."

Yes, but it looks like he made the trip to check it out in person -

" I would have said "maybe", but now I am glad I made the trip."

Money can be hard to come-by, especially big $ for toys. 

I was and remain suspicious of F&F sales. 

That being said, once I learned that:

a.) the dealer would work with the owner, allowing me to pay with VISA, not F&F, and,

b.) ARC sent this specific piece to the dealer in question...

I was comfortable making the trip to confirm it was 'new' (and unharmed) and bring it home.

I would support a comprehensive move away from F&F where it is being used for business purposes - it just destabilizes the pricing and makes buying too risky.

Best to ALL.