@dukebdevil If there is a 6dB increase in gain by going balanced, then the equipment does not support the balanced standard (AES48). The reason this is important has to do with your opening question about the best interconnect for the money.
If your equipment supports the standard then the interconnect will cease to be important. It will simply work and sound correct. And if the equipment supports the standard then there will be no 6dB gain increase as well.
There are three ways to do a balanced output: output transformer, a solid state circuit that can sink current and float at the same time, and the method we patented using a Circlotron. Inductive sources, like a phono cartridge are balanced sources. So think about this: if you apply a phono signal to the input of a differential amplifier, will it make a difference if one side of the signal is at ground? The answer is ’no’ the total Voltage is exactly the same whether one side is at ground or not.
A phono cartridge can meet all the requirements of AES48 as a result. Does this clear things up?
So with this all in mind, Mogami Neglex is a good balanced cable for not a lot of money (I use them in my home system) that will keep up with any high end audio balanced cable of any price so long as your equipment supports AES48. To me this is a big deal since high end audio cables can cost north of $1000/foot! My cables at home are 30 feet long and cost about $300/pair. If $1000/foot I’d be looking at $60,000!! For no difference in sound that’s pretty significant. Capishe?