An external high pass filter maybe? I bought a M&K external high pass,around 30 years ago, give or take, and I don't recall it costing an arm an leg.
Anyway, in a nutshell (if I've got this right from memory) your RCA outs from preamp will go into highpass/from high pass L & R RCA out to amp and also L&R RCA out to subwoofer. I do not remember at what frequency mine was preset to roll the bass off to the sub. Mine has a treble level adjustment (speakers) and bass level adjustment (sub).
Besides allowing you to use RCA cables to hook up sub, other benefits are freeing the amp up from as much bass as it was powering before, which also frees up the speakers from trying to reproduce as much bass as they were before.
I remember at the time immediately hearing things sound much more dynamic with the smaller stereo tube amp (Cary SLA70) I was using at the time.
I also remember a dealer basically turning up his nose at the notion of using one. "Another crappy box," he told me. But he didn't use the term 'crappy.'
I quit using it when I became a 'purity of signal' snob and also because I bought bigger amps and they seemed dynamic enough without it, and also because I had acquired equipment with truly balanced circuits that I wanted to use and the M&K high pass only has RCA ins and outs.
Like everything, pros and cons. But long story short--that would probably solve the blowing fuses issue you are having.