Friends hi-fi system not very good, what do you do or say?

Get up and go in another room. Lol just like a hifi store walk out. Lol

Irjones many times that’s what happen. Your friend is not that interested to learn on audio. At times  , their stereo are just there for display.iig happens to me. My friend invited me when Iam new with this hobby. Because i don’t understand the amazing and glorious musicality of his system. I end up also asking Him about their Persian rugs. Five years later I beg him to invite me because this time , Iam more interested and did appreciate his system.

I tend to take the attitude that if they own it and seem to like it, my opinion is irrelevant. I have a friend who is fond of saying "good enough for who it's for" and we all draw the line in the sand that separates acceptable and non-acceptable in a different place. It seems most audiophiles are on the side of its never good enough...and I find it very hard to constantly be dissatisfied.

If asked questions about setup or what I think in general I will respond with polite answers until I am sure they can handle and really want the truth. Then I will offer my opinion. "more power for these speakers wouldnt hurt"  "a bit closer to the wall might help solidify bass response" Moving your listening position out of the bass null in the room will help make for a better listening experience and so on. Not openly critical but suggesting tweaks to make whats there work better. If they are good friends and you know they are open to this by working with them to improve it, you get the satisfaction of helping another person you like along their audio journey. And like the Grateful Dead said, "what a long strange trip its been"

I appreciate and am interested in what somebody has created with their rig and discography. I'm definitely up for a listening session. It's always nice to hear another rig no matter the value of it or experience of its owner. 

This is an easy one.  “sounds nice.”  If your friend likes it, that’s all that is required.  If he asks for suggestions on how to improve it in some way, I would make suggestions consistent with his budget.  I would not suggest a Shunyata Everest ($8K+) for a $5K system, for example. I don’t think that most people really want to hear how others think their system sounds unless they know it is nice.  For example, with my system, which is “high end” but certainly not in the stratosphere, I don’t ask friends.  I just put them in my perfect listening chair and put on music.  100% of the time, they have been blown away (but none of my buddies are audiophiles either).