@larsman Between Two Friends why would one not accept cash.
Same as Friends will happily chink their glasses to the Toast Cheers to the point that the force is creating both drinks mix into each glass.
Trust is the Biggy, the individual (Buyer or Seller) when doing 'face to face' with unknown individuals, has to shape their encounter to the point they have looked after their interest and welfare.
If 'pindac' contacted about a sale item, there is an element of trust, simply due to the idea the name is quite familiar. If 'no forum history' or 'feedback history; contacted, the difference in trust between 'pindac' even though not known and the alternative 'no forum history' is vast and will be unsettling for quite a few individuals who have concern for their welfare.
Non Friends for the Seller - No Cash Reduces Risk - No Bogus Bills slipped into a Wad of Money!!!
Non Friends for the Buyer - No Cash reduces Risk of Getting Robbed !!!
Non Friends for both Seller and Buyer - Bank Transfers are Instant - Monies are showing in accounts in seconds - A Transfer is as fast as counting the monies and feeling notes for texture and print fade.
Non Friends - Asks Females how Vigilant they are when in a Public Place where Drinks are part of the culture.
Individuals with an interest in self gain, have been spiking drinks with fatal potions and inebriant accelerants for Centuries.