As Docsavage said, I too am surprised at your experience with the XV-1s and can't help but wonder if there is either a defect in the cartridge or problem or mismatch in your set-up. I use an Aesthetix Io Signature phono stage on an SME 30 (w/SME IV.vi arm) and have the XV-1s loaded at 200 ohms to great effect. Like Docsavage, I have had top of the line Clearaudio, van den Hul, Cardas, Shelter and Lyra cartridges in my system and the XV-1s is one of the best if not the best overall that I have had. For SURE, "dull, undynamic, muffled, very unexciting" are not words associated with the XV-1s even if one is not necessarily a fan of the cartridge.
Good luck trouble shooting.
Good luck trouble shooting.