Hi Mark -- yes we're indeed talking about the same thing, its just that the Miller capacitance is usually much lower. The reason I made the (admittedly rather imprecise) statement about vacuum-tube vs. JFET junction capacitance is from some generalizations about exactly how much this capacitance is actually reflected at the input when these parts are used in a circuit.
That is, 2-3 pF from the interelectrode capacitances of i.e. a 12AX7 are significantly less worrisome than the 30-40 pF or so from something like a 2SK389 set up as a diff-amp. I also think that cascoding JFETs (either with bipolars, or more JFETs) is a simpler, more elegant implementation than the vacuum-tube counterparts, which usually involves bootstrapping and multiple/floating heater supplies.
So I would personally always cascode JFETs in this application, but probably wouldn't with most vacuum-tubes. Just my preferances.