Hi DCarol,
Theres nothing wrong with buying on looks or anything else that moves us. We get to vote with our money, and heck, our spouses and families put up with enough of our quirks and fetishes. We owe it to them to not have a gaggle of wires and a general mess in a shared living space. Im with you on that one, completely.
I wrestle with the whole form follows function thing in my turntable designs. Since I know I cant be all things to everyone, I accept it, and let function and modularity drive the process. I realize that fixed, enclosed plinths are returning to fashion, and I cant control that. So it goes, and Ill have to deal with limiting my audience to fans of the modern / industrial look.
OK, so after a bit of pain, we know that the only way were going to take that VPI out of your system is to pry it out of your cold, dead hands. I would however, like to see you try one fairly inexpensive experiment before you start playing with cartridges. This could give you a completely different insight into what youre after.
Im recommending a drive architecture change. I dont do motor/controller upgrades anymore (too busy), but your neighbors do:
http://www.turntable-power-supply.com/index.htm.
Note, that Im specifically pointing you away from an SDS upgrade, because youre after a flavor change. A DC drive will give you a different perspective on the music one you may have been looking for ... or not. Theres only one way to find out.
I think youll gain a lot of insight into the general sonic character of a DC drive system and how it may suit both your tastes as well as your current system context.
Either way (new cartridge first, or a drive change first), enjoy the journey.
Cheers,
Thom @ Galibier