Tubes are inappropriate for a high gain stage. They're too noisy, so they employ either a SUT or a solid state high gain stage.
This statement is incorrect. We have been using all-tube phono sections for LOMC cartridges for about 25 years and they work fine with 0.2mV with no SUT, only 2 gain stages and passive EQ. The trick to getting silence out of tubes is very similar to how you do it with transistors- fully balanced differential with 2-stage constant current sources to get the proper differential effect with high Common Mode Rejection Ratio (CMRR) values.
How can a cartridge be autoloaded when the manufacturer specifies a particular load to voice a cartridge?
The answer is that no manufacturer 'voices' a cartridge in the way you are suggesting! The load is there to sort out an unstable phono section, not the cartridge.
One aspect of loading that is not discussed so far is that fact that in order to drive a load, energy is required. So the more you load down a cartridge, the more energy it has to produce the drive the load. This **has** to have an effect on the cantilever, which is in motion to drive the transducer. Think 'damping factor' as in an amplifier and loudspeaker and you've got the right idea. The implication is that low impedance loading will affect the performance of the cartridge somewhat; that it will be better able to follow the groove modulation if not so damped.
This is a profound argument for a stable phono section that does not require loading!