[W]hat components do you think match up well against really really expensive ones?
That is a loaded question. I know a guy who wanted to find the cheapest CD player that sounded identical to the highly touted Rega Planet. He went to a bunch of discount stores, bought up a half dozen models, and conducted DBTs with a few buddies. Sure enough, most of the units he chose were indistinguishable from the then-$700 Planet. The cheapest? Nine dollars.
That is not a misprint.
Lest you think he and his friends were deaf and couldn't hear anything, they really did hear a difference between the Planet and a $10 model. At that level, quality is hit-or-miss. But I should think that any DVD player with an old-line Japanese nameplate could hold its own against whatever TAS is hyping this month. If they sound different, it's probably because the expensive one doesn't have flat frequency response (either because the designer intentionally tweaked it, or because he didn't know what he was doing).
Amps are a bit trickier, because you have to consider the load you want to drive. But the vast majority of speaker models out there today are fairly sensitive, and don't drop much below 4 ohms impedance. A bottom-of-the-line receiver from a Denon or an Onkyo could handle a stereo pair like that with ease. (Multichannel systems are a different story. But I once asked a well-known audio journalist what he would buy with $5000. He suggested a 5.1 Paradigm Reference system and a $300 Pioneer receiver. He was not joking.)
There are good reasons to spend more, of course. Myself, I use a Rotel integrated amp and CD player. I hate all the extra buttons on the A/V stuff, and my wife finds their complexity intimidating. Plus, I appreciate simple elegance. I also appreciate good engineering. If I could afford it, I'd get a Benchmark DAC and a couple of powerful monoblocks. But that money is set aside for a new pair of speakers.