Advice on wire transfer and shipping to APO

I have sold to International buyers who have asked me to lie about the price to avoid custom fees, VAT, etc. When I explain to them that I would also have to lower the insured value, and they would only be able to recoup what the item is insured for, most say OK. Some however come up with another contact within the USA for me to ship to, usually a relative or friend. Then they'll have their contact ship it to their wishes.

I have never had an issue with a bank wire transfer as far as safety goes. However, bank fees have been going up pretty drastically. I think it's up to $40 to accept an incoming wire transfer now. Even more if the funds have to be transfered into USD.

Thanks for the advice, all. I'm mostly thinking about the safety of the wire transfer. I have to assume that the addressee is OK w it. My bank does not charge me for incoming wires and I have not been asked to insure or value the item for less than the sales price. The buyer knows that they are responsible for any local fees, etc (probably not an issue w the APO). I hate to be self-centered, but as long as the wire transfer is irrevocable and I ship via trackable, insured service, I can't see that I am at risk, but I wanted to make sure that there is not an "unknown unknown) lurking out there.

You should be safe Swampwalker. Any time money changes hands their is always a risk, even with cash (it could be counterfeit). Personally, I have never had, nor have I heard of, a wire transfer being recalled like Paypal.
Just make sure the funds clear into your account and you are golden.

BTW, were you planning on selling your VAC preamp anytime soon? I think it's time for you to upgrade. LOL!

Jmcgrogan2- I guess I need to update my system page; lots of changes. Pre-amp is now Doshi Alaap driving Hornings (I forget which one) via VAC 30/30. Got the Doshi before I got the VAC amp and while I love the Doshi, I kinda would have loved to hear how the full VAC system would sound (and it had that great full function remote!). Of well, so much equipment and so little time ;-)

I was looking at a Doshii Alaap II, but I just couldn't pull the trigger. A bit too far out of my price range, even used. I've heard great things about them though.