System for the hearing impaired

I have given up trying to listen to my system with my digital hearing aids. Without my aids, I miss the upper mids and highs. With them, the sound is unbearably harsh and compressed( i. e. unbearable). I never did like headphones.... Does anyone have any non sarcastic ideas or experience with a similar problem? I sure wish a company would put out "classic" versions of there old analog hearing aids for all of us aging audiophiles. If folks can spend 100K on a system ( I cannot), you'd think there would also be a niche market for this.