Weird Bass Reponse on my Speakers.

You are probably reading a room notch at the 200Hz mark. The mid-woofer probably has a resonance point right around the 80-100Hz area, which would pull it down some there, and the passive radiator kicks in to recover it down to 40-50Hz. The website says the PR is tuned to 35Hz, so it rolls off relatively fast below that. There are also room effects likely in the other frequencies you are reading also.So you are probably reading combined effects of the room and the problems with the resonant spike and the transition to the passive radiator. Don't get too excited about it. Many speakers have behavior like this when placed in a listening room. Remember that most speakers are measured in an anechoic chamber, and not in your room. You always have to tweak the installation to get the best results. You might try crossing the sub out at a 6db slope at 80Hz, and see if you can stand the seam at that frequency. This should boost the midbass to cover the most egregious area, as far as SPL goes. You'll probably wind up with a little peak at 50Hz, but that shouldn't hurt too much. Whether it integrates well sonically with the Extremas at that crossover freq is your decision.

you also need to consider your test equipment, a radioshack SPL meter is by no means flat in it's response. I use one all the time while EQing a room for my PA but always end up fine tuning afterward. My advice is to use your ears and decide what frequency you like best for the crossover. The best part about this hobby is the tweaking (it keeps us all from getting board and spending way more money than we should!)

Looks like you have a nice big dip in the bass response from about 140hz down to 60hz range. This is a common problem I find with monitors on stands in a lot of set ups. The overall perceived result, sonically, is weak sounding mid bass/upper bass, as you're describing.
Just out of curriosity, how high is your ceiling and how high are the stands your speakers are on? Also, what are the room dimmensions, including the open area to the left where there's no wall?
I'd need to look at where you sit/measure from as well, but speaker/seating location in the room is the single biggest determining factor for bass response from any speaker/system!!! YOu mentioned having some "non-symetrical" layout for your speakers, and that one speaker is out in the room with no wall to one side, where the other I assume is? You are definitely getting different bass response from one speaker to the other, and one speaker is probably producing more of the bass than the other in terms of room/seating interaction. Can you rearange your set up to get both speakers in a more "symetrical" placement in the room? Is this feasible?
I usually find people screw this part of the most, and their set ups leave something to be desired.
My assesment,not even having seen your room or layout, is that you can fix your problem if you know what your doing in repossitining your speakers/seating/speaker height!
I know SF recommends certain height stands for their speakers to immage the way they want, and for proper sound stage height. However, my experiences STRONGLY DISSAGREE with their usually HIGH speaker height for stands in general! ESPECIALLY considering that most people listen to speakers in a room with an average 8ft ceiling height, this tends to always make speakers respond weaker in the mid bass reigion on stands that are much higher than 24=25" for standard monitors! When you consider SF usually recommends stands that are like 31" or so for their speakers (Extremas may be different), the results with low ceiling heights tend to not do so well in terms of response that high! Really, I think its better to use lower stands when you use an 8ft ceiling in general, and adjust the speakers "tip" towards your ears instead!...yielding better response usually.
However, as there's inevitably more factors to consider, and each room/set up is different, it can very. But, again, usualy if you have to do stands with a lower ceiling for 2 way monitors, lower usually sounds more "full" and "strong" in the midbass, and reinforces the bsss frequencies from the floors bass augmentation. Sometimes higher can work better overall, and help reduce the 70hz peak that's lower in the middle of the floor/ceiling, and the 140hz mode that you get in the middle of the floor/ceiling can be smoothed by placing the speakers bass woofer at 2ft off the floor, wich is often imprrctical with speakers on stands.
Really, there's a lot of factors.
Still I believe with different location considerations for your set up, you can get much better, more accuruate sounding results and bass response from those otherwise excellent monitors.
Another strong consideration would be to hire someone who knows what they're doing with rooms and speaker set ups! You'd be shocked at what a knowledgeable, experience experied can do! That's often well worth the money if you can find such an individual to do it for you. There's so many considerations in getting great sound from speakers in a room, especially smaller rooms! Those are the most challenging usually, and limitations apply without equalizers in very small rooms unfortunately.
There are a lot of "tricks" and techniques to finding the right locations in rooms to place speakers and seats, depending on the room. It's knowing what those techniques and skills are, and how to utilize them, that can make all the difference! Good luck
Good luck