Almarg, we will have to disagree about how appropriate, or more importantly, how helpful someone's recent comments on this thread have been. So many people have offered advice and guidance trying to solve the OP's situation. I didn't see the point of chiding or berating him. When I did the same thing to that poster, not surprisingly he didn't like it. Was what I did petty? Borderline. However,
This is an open forum and I'm contributing my .02.