SLP05-> (RCA)-> Cary CAD211AE-> mid/tweet
SLP05-> (XLR)-> Cary CAD200-> woofer
(Bi-amped). Result: CAD211AE works, CAD200 produces no sound from woofer.
SLP05-> (XLR)-> Cary CAD200-> mid/tweet
SLP05-> (RCA)-> Cary CAD211AE-> woofer
(Bi-amped with valve amp on bottom). Result: Now here is the interesting thing. Put the SS amp on the mid/tweet and the valve amp on the woofer, and it works! I am succesfully bi-amping!
... I even borrowed another two SS power amps and the result was the same - each time, the SS power amp refused to power the woofer in bi-amp configuration.
These are the key clues, it seems to me. And I think that they indicate that the preamp-to-power amp interface is not where the problem is; it is somehow in the power amp-to-woofer interface. The preamp would have no knowledge, so to speak, of which drivers (mid/hi or woofer) each power amp is connected to.
Are you sure that in the cases where you get sound from the woofers (running the ss amp full range, or running the tube amp into the woofer) you get the full expected volume from the woofers, distortion-free? Perhaps some problem has arisen in the woofer or its crossover elements that is causing the impedance presented to the power amp to drop down too low, causing the ss amps to go into protective shutdown, while the tube amp perhaps manages to keep functioning.
Or perhaps the woofer and its crossover elements by themselves present a highly reactive load to the power amp (probably inductive), and the ss power amp's protection circuitry is unhappy with that. When you run full-range, the capacitive reactance which is probably seen looking into the mid/hi terminals would to some extent cancel out the inductive reactance seen looking into the woofer terminals, resulting in a more purely resistive (and hence easier) load.
Regards,
-- Al