I've owned several VERY ($10k+) high end CD/SACD players and recently experimented with a server/DAC setup and I was stunned at how subtle/non-existant the SQ difference was between the two.
The choice comes down to what you like. I personally miss the human/machine interaction of a disk player (call me crazy) and having to change disks and manually clamp it down, etc.
From a pure performance standpoint I think it's becoming VERY difficult to justify a high end player. But this hobby is much more than just performance for most of us so things such as tactile feel, pride of ownership, aesthetics and more all matter.
Trust your ears and heart and get something that you will enjoy regardless of what your dealer may be pushing.