Help me pick out music for a party


I am hosting a party for my wife's 50th birthday party. Most of our guests are the same age and probably same musical tastes: rock from the late 60's 70 and 80's (u2, jackson browne, peter gabriel, etc), jazz (miles, carter, metheny).

It is not a dance party (buffet dinner and few people sitting down) and I would appreciate suggestins for the evening. No disco, no hiphop or rap.

Thanks

Richard Bischoff
rbischoff
A few more thoughts on period background music;

Al Green,
Steely Dan,
Boz Scaggs,
Santana,
Sade,
Eagles/Don Henley, also

I have to second Frank Sinatra "Romance - Songs From the Heart" as an outstanding recording - you can buy it at Starbucks,

Finally, when things start to boogie, throw on Billy Idol's Greatest Hits.

Have a fun party!
Pay more attention to the mood you want to create than worrying about a particular genre. If the main activity is expected to be conversation, pick something upbeat, but not too rocking or distracting. I find Dave Mattews perfect for this. Mellow enough to be able to talk over, intersting enough to listen to if someone gets bored with the conversation, jazzy enough to sound sophisticated, and generally upbeat and happy.
Also, NEVER LET THE MUSIC STOP!! I'v seen several times when the music stops and people start leaving before the host can put another disc in. It struck me as strange. Even if they don't leave, they will feel the change in mood, and feellet down (if you chose well), or relieved (if you chose poorly or played too loudly). You really want to keep the volume down very low.
Try This,

Koop (name of artists) "Koop Islands".

It's found in the electronica section of HMV etc, but it isn't dance or electronic music.

On the cover, it says (paraphrasing)... "music reminiscent of 1930's swing/big band era that can be heard in the dining hall of a liner while on a cruise in the Caribbean"... or something to that effect.

The first track: Koop Island Blues is awesome. Most of the tracks is sultry female vocals with rhythmic brush ride cymbals in the background.. and an airy summer Caribbean flavor.... upbeat and interesting.