Very nice story, I'm happy for both of you. You enjoyed the music, and not the system. A lot of systems sound good, but for one reason or another,they are not always musical...and that is a big distraction from the music that is playing.
I expect anyone who manages to put a musical system together like you have, will experience the same feelings you have arrived at, and thats nice....because it was really about the music in the first place, and sometimes it takes a while to get back to that part.
Dave