Glad to hear you are working on the room. Whether you go DIY (which may be a little trial and error) or hire a design group to engineer the room, you will be much happier.
I don't know if this is the Rosetta stone, but this resource page may help you on your quest. Be sure to click on the listening room on the left of the page--it's kind of a tutorial that will give some basic insight. The simulator is kind of fun too.
Rives Resource Page
I don't know if this is the Rosetta stone, but this resource page may help you on your quest. Be sure to click on the listening room on the left of the page--it's kind of a tutorial that will give some basic insight. The simulator is kind of fun too.
Rives Resource Page