Your back of the envelope calculations are roughly correct.
However, for every DOUBLE of the distance, the SPL will decrease by 6dB. Remember that 91 db SPL peak is hardly loud at all. Average at 91 db SPL with peaks at 100 db SPL is only beginnig to get really loud. Most concerts sound great to fans and they play at up to 105 db SPL average for many of the punchy numbers.
The problem with your position (4 meters back) is that an 86 db SPL sensitivity speaker is going be required to play at 112 db SPL to get you those 100 db SPL peaks (that your speaker can even do this without huge amounts of distortion is extremely unlikely for 99% of speakers). It also means your amplifier needs to belt out 512 watts on those peaks - which 99% of amps cannot do.
So what does this mean - in practice once you get to around peak levels of 91 db SPL (lets assume 85 db SPL average) then you start to hear distortion and PERCEPTIVELY everything begins to sound extremely and dangerously loud 0 although in actual fact it isn't at all (it is just you are starting to get lots of distortion)
However, for every DOUBLE of the distance, the SPL will decrease by 6dB. Remember that 91 db SPL peak is hardly loud at all. Average at 91 db SPL with peaks at 100 db SPL is only beginnig to get really loud. Most concerts sound great to fans and they play at up to 105 db SPL average for many of the punchy numbers.
The problem with your position (4 meters back) is that an 86 db SPL sensitivity speaker is going be required to play at 112 db SPL to get you those 100 db SPL peaks (that your speaker can even do this without huge amounts of distortion is extremely unlikely for 99% of speakers). It also means your amplifier needs to belt out 512 watts on those peaks - which 99% of amps cannot do.
So what does this mean - in practice once you get to around peak levels of 91 db SPL (lets assume 85 db SPL average) then you start to hear distortion and PERCEPTIVELY everything begins to sound extremely and dangerously loud 0 although in actual fact it isn't at all (it is just you are starting to get lots of distortion)