Boa2: I don't know what to do with this woman!
I'll tell you what to do: renew your vows.
Well as a single young guy, I've decided to get my system perfect first, and add the tweak of a wife later. I make it pretty well known to anyone I date how much I'm into music and listening to my rig and how much time inovlved with the gear (I try to leave the money part out of it...seems tacky). Some of the ladies who've been able to stand me for more than one evening (and who I could convince to come back to my place without the cave-man approach) are pretty into it. Can you married blokes speak from experience in that, will it be the case that they tolerate it now, or think it's cute/interesting, but I'll all of a sudden be selling gear for that "cute new bose radio" down the line because it matches the drapes better? Hmm..maybe being single isn't so bad after all. Actually, forget that, I'm going to see if the Agon people want to partner on a dating site for audiophiles. HAH!