i'll try one last time.
there are two ways to approach the question "what is good sound ?"
the first is based upon the intrinsic qualities of the sound of instruments produced by the stereo system
the second, is based upon extrinsic criteria, having nothing to do with the quality of the sound but rather a listener's reaction to the sound.
if a listener has a negative raction to the "sound" of a stereo system, it is not a good sounding stereo system, for such a person.
thus there are two ways to judge the merits of a stereo system.
the same stereo system could be judged as excellent in quality based upon intrinsic criteria but judged to be of poor quality based upon how the listener's response to that stereo system.
can a case be made definitively for one or the other position ?
if not there should be more tolerance of differences and less dogmatism.