Understand this now, and your life will be much simpler:
You never will understand, so don't bother trying. It will only upset you further, and annoy the female.
Learn to chuckle, and say "yes dear, it sure is ugly". Of course you still buy it anyway, but just agree with her. If she insists on pursuing the issue, show her the beautiful $6000 tuner that you REALLY wanted. She then be thrilled that you're happy with your $20 tuner, and it will look better to her as well.
John
You never will understand, so don't bother trying. It will only upset you further, and annoy the female.
Learn to chuckle, and say "yes dear, it sure is ugly". Of course you still buy it anyway, but just agree with her. If she insists on pursuing the issue, show her the beautiful $6000 tuner that you REALLY wanted. She then be thrilled that you're happy with your $20 tuner, and it will look better to her as well.
John