Hang in there you will learn in time.
The first thing to make sure to do before any other setup advice is to level the turntable at the platter.
I don't mean making sure the surface it's on is level. Put a spirit level on the turntable platter and turn the platter to see that's its level font to back and right to level.
Turntable and rack can be level and the platter might be a little off.
Since platter level can affect anti-skating, it's important to do this first (Also buy a blank record to verify anti-skate response. I found that my Technics 1200G anti-skate dial is close to being accurate but very slightly over compensates).
Not saying this is your current problem but it's a necessary step.
Also, in the future, might be good to get a turntable with better anti-skate adjustments.