Millercarbon, and several others, please don’t spread misinformation about how residential electrical systems are wired and how they work. Get a real licensed electrician who is qualified if you don’t understand this stuff. If you still want to do your own work, at least get educated on the subject, and make sure you have your electrical safety authority inspect and approve all work you do.
Sorry if this sounds harsh, but if you don’t understand the difference between neutral and ground, and the difference between grounding and bonding, and where to ground and where to bond, you are putting yourself and your families in danger if you undertake your own electrical work. For the record, residential electrical feed is single split phase.