I was not bashing REL. All I can say I just could not hear much of a difference when adding a REL to the mix. I was expecting to go wow when I heard the REL, but they sure didn't immediately think they were worth the money. If you can't hear a difference, why waste the money.
This is a great attitude, but I do want to say this: There are many great subs that when well integrated will knock your knickers off. From everything you have described, these subs were not well integrated/