Jsman, your question permits too many responsive permutations in order for me to cogently reply.
But just to confuse you more, if the stylus is intact, you may want to call Peter Ledermann at Soundsmith and ask himm if he thinks the DV is repairable, perhaps even as easy as straightening the cantilever. Or he could install a new stylus/cantilever assembly.
As far as other cartridges are concerned, I know too little about the rest of your rig or budget to offer constructive advice.