Tons of great suggestions mentioned.
Wanted to add my thoughts directly on your choices from experience: the Harbeth and the Warfedale. Listened with tube gear at a dealer in WA (https://www.gigharboraudio.com/) who I would recommend you call and talk with, as they are VERY in-line with your thoughts and what you are looking for in your space, and carry or have carried most of what you mention, plus others like Audio Note.
I personally think the best bang for what you list are the Harbeths. They really are exceptional speakers, and have a life and presence and accuracy that at least I liked a lot over the Warfedale option. To me, the Harbeth was extremely accurate at reproducing the metal sound and *feel* of an acoustic guitar string, AND the warm organic wood of the body resonance; meaning they were notably two separate things, where other speakers I tested DIDN'T have that ability. The only other speaker that was available for audition that did that as well was the Audio Note speaker.
I ended up getting a pair of Legacy Audio's "Studio HD" speakers during Covid just before their prices went up. They are to me, amazing speakers. I still listen to a ton of rock and heavier music, but I also like very accurate modern music and acoustic performances. I added a sub to get the 'power' but I think the Legacy are also extremely accurate and lively...but I think the Harbeths were better at true accuracy and sound staging (dependent on equipment driving).
Best of luck!!! I'm curious to find what you end up with!