Between the two hands down the XA25, not even close. I have heard a few SIT amps and they sound best with higher efficiency easy to drive speakers but they were too fast paced and uneven sounding as a system. The SIT3 only has 11db gain which is extremely low and may sound anemic with typical gain preamps. Even the XA25 sounds best with higher gain preamps- e.g. 20db or so.
The SIT3 only delivers 8 watts at 8 ohms before it starts to clip, unless you have a small room, listen close to the speakers and like moderate volume listening cross that one off of your list.
I have owned the XA25 and with my speakers which have a similar impedance and sensitivity to yours the sound was excellent, one of the best sounding amps I have heard or owned.
It has almost twice the gain as the SIT3 and starts clipping at 90 watts per channel despite it's 25 watt rating.