You are worrying too much. This being an audiophile site, you will get people swearing to the death about the superiority of one kind of cable vs another, but most reasonable people are going to tell you that especially with ethernet cables, from Cat5 and above you aren't going to hear much of a difference. There are surely better modems than what you have, but not necessarily for audiophile purposes. As to how you get the cable to run from your router to your listening area, do whatever works.
The biggest issue imo with streaming are connectivity issues, in terms of getting the streamer to play nice with the rest of your system. None of that will be affected by the issues you cite. If your new streamer is easily integrated by the rest of your intranet, then most of your worries are over.
Take a deep breath, have a glass of egg nog with some nice rum, and think about the music that you will enjoy
The biggest issue imo with streaming are connectivity issues, in terms of getting the streamer to play nice with the rest of your system. None of that will be affected by the issues you cite. If your new streamer is easily integrated by the rest of your intranet, then most of your worries are over.
Take a deep breath, have a glass of egg nog with some nice rum, and think about the music that you will enjoy