I respectfully disagree - at least in my listening experience, I found the source to be quite important part of the chain !
The onkyo CDP is holding you back - while the rest of the system is good mid-fi.
If you get something like this, you will definitely hear a difference - hopefully satisfied enough not to upgrade, at least for a some time.
http://www.audiogon.com/cgi-bin/cls.pl?dgtlplay&1240452353&/McIntosh-MCD-7008-CD-Changer
http://www.audiogon.com/cgi-bin/cls.pl?dgtlplay&1239488831&/McIntosh-MVP831-original-packi
I don't know which one is better - you might want to read reviews on them - but I have 7000 series, and I simply adore it!
Hope this helps...