If a buyer is a looky loo type that wants to try an item, find out if they really like it or not, they can tell paypal that the item is faulty or some such and paypal will require a refund.
The misconception that many have here is that many of us that sell are not in a business. we are not a store, dealership, etc. I don't have time for tire kickers. I like dealing with people that know what they want and why they want it. not experimenting.
I have no problem, having long conversations with potential buyers to discuss who I am, who they are, our interests and the item for sale. For me (pre-covid) to not have any problem with buyers coming to my home, bringing their favorite music with them, and listening to the equipment, says a lot about me. I'm not trying to hide anything. The equipment I sell (when I sell) is exactly as I described it.
When someone pays me by check, I make it clear that I won't ship until the check clears. Yes, in this case, the buyer takes a risk, but, so do I in other examples. That is where the many phone conversations and background checks come it.
I sold a classic car on the internet to a buyer in Germany a few years ago. He never physically saw the car. The advertisements, phone calls, photos, paperwork, etc. really helped. he transferred funds into my back account via wire transfer from a US bank. My bank would not accept wire transfers from overseas. When the boat arrived and the car was offloaded, he called me and told me that the car was exactly as I stated. He was thrilled.
Sometimes, you have to do your research, background checks, phone calls, etc. and take a chance. Especially if you can't physically pick up a unit.
I've bought many items on Audiogon (pre paypal) with a check that I sent to the seller.
So, I stand by my point. Audiogon is in bed with paypal (business reasons) and therefore, is limiting how purchases can be made. That is because of paypal trying to monopolize the industry. That does not mean that I have to like it or eat the paypal fee.
What if the buyer lives within driving distance? That person will come to my home (well.... not now... covid), listen to the unit, pay me and take it home. Why should we use paypal in that case?
anyway, enjoy