I just read through the thread, and realized that the OP, Chiguy, never gave some of the basic facts one needs when making speaker decisions, unless I missed the info.
When shopping for speakers, the size of the room they are going in is paramount. We also need to know the power amp being used, or considered. Chiguy did mention the amp is a 20 year old one that he might be replacing, but that doesn't help much.
Also what he'll be using the speakers for, music or movies, and what volume levels he's hoping to attain.
We can throw out ideas all day, but without some basic information such as above, it's not really much help. One thing I would suggest, if the OP is allowing his wife some say in this speaker decision, he better be bringing her along on the shopping trip rather than bringing yet another pair home to only have her veto them.