Preamp recommendations for my system please

BTW, really nice system BTW

I'm not sure the Denafrips Athena competes at the kind of price point you are comfortable with but I sure am happy with mine.  Four XLR inputs, one RCA input, two XLR outputs and one RCA output.  60 step remote control.  $2000.  I'm not sure how to describe the sound except to say it is the first preamp I've tried that improves over DAC direct to amp.  But I know nothing about truly high end preamps. Sadly no returns and not many reviews. 

On your list, I like the Ayre.  I have always like the sound of that brand and it has been a part of some of the best sounding systems I have ever heard and I used to have a K5xeMP.
 

Another option would be the PS Audio BHK Signature.  I personally owned this for a stretch and enjoyed it paired with VTL MB-185s.   The stock tubes are horrid but if you roll in NOS Tunsgrams, it is outstanding. 

I ultimately moved away from balanced systems and run single ended gear now but that is more the nature of the brands I import.

i have no relationship with Ayre or PS Audio other than being a happy former owner.
 

@kcpellethead 

Although the Backert is a fantastic sounding pre, and has XLR outputs, it's not truly balanced. So that may not meet your requirement. 

When I've heard Wilsons sound there best it's always been with tube amps and preamps (usually VTL), so of your choices, I'd suggest the Ref 6 (or 5 for cost).

Personally, BAT and VTL would be added to the contenders. Cheers,

Spencer

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