Al,
"So are you saying, then, that the only difference between what worked and what previously didn’t work was twisting the red and yellow wires together, while having exactly the same connections in both cases?" YES
"Or are you saying that the red and yellow wires are now connected to the same positive output terminal of the amp, while you wait for the second sub to arrive which will be connected to the positive output terminal of the other channel?" YES, per my conversation with Justin that's the way I have to connect dual REL subs anyway; therefore there wasn't any risk in connecting the single sub this way. He assured me nothing bad would happen, so I tried it.
"So are you saying, then, that the only difference between what worked and what previously didn’t work was twisting the red and yellow wires together, while having exactly the same connections in both cases?" YES
"Or are you saying that the red and yellow wires are now connected to the same positive output terminal of the amp, while you wait for the second sub to arrive which will be connected to the positive output terminal of the other channel?" YES, per my conversation with Justin that's the way I have to connect dual REL subs anyway; therefore there wasn't any risk in connecting the single sub this way. He assured me nothing bad would happen, so I tried it.