That seems like a pretty harsh statement from VPI. I have to concede though that SME along with everyone else had made significant technological advances since the 3009 arrived on the scene.
Does SME still sell the 3009? That would tell you right off the bat what they think of the arm.
I do have to agree with Tom. There are lots of good arms out there now. The Mk IV is a pretty good table so you would probably be better served by getting a better arm. I think you could have an amazing setup if you bought an arm of equal quality to the TT. The Rega RB 900 provides fantastic sound but at a price much more palatable to the average consumer.
Good luck in your hunt, and have fun with 'all that jazz.'