The Disappearing Act
Your audio question reminds me of another artform.
In filmmaking, the goal is ’suspension of disbelief’. To be so engrossed in the storytelling that the audience disregards that they’re sitting in a movie theater. The elements include the script, acting, cinematography, production design, et al. The willingness (mood) of the viewer to be mesmerized also plays an important part. Having a darkened environment helps to block out distractions.*
If something breaks the spell - such as bad acting or lack of continuity - then the special experience is lost - and very difficult to regain.
IMHO, music playback also has a variety of elements that must work together synergistically to draw the listener in. The artistry in the recording, the engineering of the recording, the audio system, the room - and of course, the listener’s mindset. My appreciation of disappearing speakers increased substantially when distortion was finally exorcised from streaming.
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*Trying to recreate the move palace experience in a home theater is a major conundrum. The bigger the budget, the better the execution - usually. 🧐