I don't think the human ear judges loudness in audio. Certainly we can sense loudness outside our listening room and there it isn't distortion.
Tbg, sorry to be a buzz kill, but what you think above isn't really the way it is.
*Of course* our ear/brain system 'judges loudness in audio'.
And of course, we detect differences in sound level all the time :) All I was pointing to is part of the mechanism of how our ears do it (detect the odd orders in a sound) and the fact that there is a correlation to audio.
Csontos, if I may, HiFi is good but with electronics artifacts that let you know its a stereo. 'Realistic' is where the system sounds so real that voices are scary, because you think someone is there when its really just the stereo playing.