What is your listening level?

Is 85db the ideal listening level?
Probably average 85 dbs with peaks < 100 dbs. My speakers seem to require a kick in the pants to come alive, so 65 - 70 dbs just puts me to sleep.
I heard a voice in a dream that said rockers would't know the difference if they went deaf.
Right below clipping. 110 decibels I guess. 12X8X20 room 600 watt Bryston and OHM 5000s. I love it loud.