Agreed, +2. Speakers first. Once you choose the speakers, post another thread here asking for amplifier recommendations for that particular speaker model. Hopefully some others will already have done a lot of testing and you can then narrow down your choices to a couple of already successful pairings.
And once you start auditioning, keep your eyes out for posters that are hearing the same things that you are when you listen to the same gear. It's nice when you can find some reliable voices that have the same ears/preferences as you. As you are aware, everyone thinks they know the truth, but obviously preferences differ, and I think ears/brains differ in how they process sound more than we realize. Different people are sensitive to different aspects of sound and distortion and end up with different systems because of it.
And once you start auditioning, keep your eyes out for posters that are hearing the same things that you are when you listen to the same gear. It's nice when you can find some reliable voices that have the same ears/preferences as you. As you are aware, everyone thinks they know the truth, but obviously preferences differ, and I think ears/brains differ in how they process sound more than we realize. Different people are sensitive to different aspects of sound and distortion and end up with different systems because of it.