What are your speakers/cables? To reiterate, I'm listening through Thiel 2.2's and either Satori or Au24 cable (though these impressions were formed only with the Satori, as I'm still evaluating the newer-to-me Audience cables).
Anyway, I'm not sure I can put a tag on which presentation is 'most realistic' so easily. I think it depends a lot on the recording and type of music. As I said above, in general I find tetrode more realistic in terms of qualities I would call 'physical'. But I think triode is more 'accurate' in its tonal and harmonic presentation. I've had some recent success in transforming the tetrode tonal balance more to my liking by both changing input tubes (the previous ones had become microphonic, and were brighter) and by placing tube dampers on them. However, I'm not quite done sorting this all out yet, because I've also gone from Svet 6550C's to EH KT-88's, and on top of that I haven't yet carefully evaluated again the tetrode/triode question with all the new tubes in place. Not to mention that I'm auditioning these speaker cables, which sound perhaps more transiently accurate but less warm than my reference, and I also just had a tweeter and crossover resistor replaced and that speaker is still breaking back in...it never ends :-)
Anyway, yes, my physical impressions are pretty much the opposite of what you describe in your second paragraph above, so apparently our 'clones' are 'slightly off' in different ways. Where you say triode gives you more detail, room ambience, palpability, walk-around transparency, and is more pinned-down in space, I feel tetrode does all those things better, with triode being the mode giving more body/fullness (if less extension and tautness). It's enough to make me wonder if our mode switches are wired-up the same way or if one's reversed! But I guess I envy anybody who's come to the comfortable conclusion that one mode is usually best for them...at some point here I'll revisit this question with the new tubes and post my findings.
Anyway, I'm not sure I can put a tag on which presentation is 'most realistic' so easily. I think it depends a lot on the recording and type of music. As I said above, in general I find tetrode more realistic in terms of qualities I would call 'physical'. But I think triode is more 'accurate' in its tonal and harmonic presentation. I've had some recent success in transforming the tetrode tonal balance more to my liking by both changing input tubes (the previous ones had become microphonic, and were brighter) and by placing tube dampers on them. However, I'm not quite done sorting this all out yet, because I've also gone from Svet 6550C's to EH KT-88's, and on top of that I haven't yet carefully evaluated again the tetrode/triode question with all the new tubes in place. Not to mention that I'm auditioning these speaker cables, which sound perhaps more transiently accurate but less warm than my reference, and I also just had a tweeter and crossover resistor replaced and that speaker is still breaking back in...it never ends :-)
Anyway, yes, my physical impressions are pretty much the opposite of what you describe in your second paragraph above, so apparently our 'clones' are 'slightly off' in different ways. Where you say triode gives you more detail, room ambience, palpability, walk-around transparency, and is more pinned-down in space, I feel tetrode does all those things better, with triode being the mode giving more body/fullness (if less extension and tautness). It's enough to make me wonder if our mode switches are wired-up the same way or if one's reversed! But I guess I envy anybody who's come to the comfortable conclusion that one mode is usually best for them...at some point here I'll revisit this question with the new tubes and post my findings.