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1) No its not an absolute rule is just a general guide
2) Rolloff of the highs and lows - probably some softing of the bass impact
3) I can see no reason why these shouldn't work in theory, but most folks would really want more leeway, like money in the bank so to speak. I've successfully used a 10K impedence amp with a tubed pre in which the manufacturer recommended a minimum of 20K (which was a 40 to 1 ratio). But as a practice, to keep my options open I usually only buy amps with imput impedences of 47K or more. In your place I would want to hear the amp - preamp combo before I commit.
1) No its not an absolute rule is just a general guide
2) Rolloff of the highs and lows - probably some softing of the bass impact
3) I can see no reason why these shouldn't work in theory, but most folks would really want more leeway, like money in the bank so to speak. I've successfully used a 10K impedence amp with a tubed pre in which the manufacturer recommended a minimum of 20K (which was a 40 to 1 ratio). But as a practice, to keep my options open I usually only buy amps with imput impedences of 47K or more. In your place I would want to hear the amp - preamp combo before I commit.