Braro,
Yes, you are correct, the aesthetics (their looks) are not outstanding on the VTLs. (The sonics, on the other hand, are!) The Manleys that my friend used to own, had the gold face (as opposed to the standard silver face), and they looked gorgeous. The VTLs are not ugly, they just look plain. For double the power, at the same price as the Manleys, they are well worth the sacrafice, IMHO. (Well, unless you don't need the power, in which case, maybe they are worth it.)
Ejlif brings up a couple of good points:
The VTLs do run hot. (My buddy and I live in California and they run hot, and in the summer, my friend has to keep the windows open to keep the heat from building up too much.)
The BAT VK150SEs might be a consideration too. My buddy, (yeah, the same guy! He loves to experiment. I wish I could do the same, but my money and my wife won't let me!), tried out the VK150 (not the SE version though). They did sound really good, but just did not have the power that he wanted.
I am in the same boat as you, as I am semi-seriously looking to upgrade my amplifier. (I really, really like my Levinson No. 23, but I would like more power, and I would like to have that tube sound in my system.) Unlike you however, I have figured out that I don't want the hassle of tubes, (i.e the biasing and replacing of the tubes.) Not to mention the heat, which for my buddy is a minor inconvenience, but for me, would really be a big hassle, as my living room has full sun in the summer, and even the relatively cool running Levinson heats up the room a bit.
What I do want are solid state (or possibly hybrid) mono-blocks, with at least 200 wpc, and double that if possible. Unfortunately, in my price range, everything I have researched seems to have a minor problem, albeit minor ones. If I am going to spend $5K+ for used amps, I want NO sonic sacrafices. (I prefer buying used, btw, as I get double the bang for my buck, but to each his own.)
I am leaning towards the Lamm M2.1, but they are really pricey, (although they are in your price range, if bought used.) They are a hybrid amp, with only one tube per channel.
I am also considering the H2O monoblocks, (with the ICE modules) but I am concerned if their sonics are really as good as some people say they are. (My buddy has the Rowland 501's, (Also with the ICE modules) and while they have gotten better as they have broken in, they are still no where near as good as his VTLs, nor as good as his old Classe CA-401 (SS) amp, that he used to use. (BTW, the later is based on my friend's experience, as I have not gotten a chance to listen to them yet.)
Well good luck in your search! Let us know what you get, and your opinion.