Dumb question time. When you did you RTA measurements were you also searching out the nodes and nulls. Could it be as simple as finding the best nodes for speakers and listening positions? Regarding equipment vibration casued by floor movement, can you beef up the floor under the equipment by using piers under the floor extending down to the garage floor, even if set at an angle. If thats possible, then you can put down a layer of vibration absorbant materiel between your floor surface and the base of your equipment to minimize vibrations. BTW re footfalls and bouncing stylus, do you by any chance have a suspended table? If so, consider that contrary to common perception suspended tables don't like foot falls. A good isolation platform and an unsuspended table can be much better.
What a bummer, having a great space for a dedicated room, great equipment, and a lousy floor. :-(
What a bummer, having a great space for a dedicated room, great equipment, and a lousy floor. :-(