High ceilings and hardwood floors

Alexanderj is right about the frequency doubling. As it turns out that frequency is about 70 Hz. In addition, the length of the long wall is going to cause an interaction with the ceiling and short wall at additional frequencies that are multiples of 7 of the 70 Hz primary (70, 140, 280, 350,....). The room is certainly workable though. As stated, get a rug on the floor and start working from there. Try everyday, inexpensive things. Sometimes something as common and inexpensive as a fake Ficus plant from Home Depot in each corner can make a huge difference. Good Luck, Doug

My wife is not going to like it. She chose this house because of the living room and hardwoods. I'm in a bad spot because she thinks this hobby is silly. I can play the most beautiful and dramatic music and she says "thats nice, do we have to have all those wires on the floor? And can we push those speakers back against the wall?"

I had almost the excact same room a year ago myself. I think it will be impossible to make it sound great.
Build a room in the basement, with the proper dimensions, it will be the best system upgrade you every make.

Try trading in the wife for a set of Argent Room Lenses.

You can try placing an area rug at the first point of reflection on the floor and if you have art work on stretched canvas try to place some of them at the first reflection points on the walls (you can lay out any other art work from those points). Stuffed oversized chairs placed at an angle in the corners do wonders, any corner that you can do it in, (I even placed an old wormed out wooden ironing board at an angle and on end in one of our short tight corners, which is better than nothing and my wife loves it). Neither of us like to look at electronics in the living room so my gear was enclosed behind the sliding doors of an old Tansu cabinet, but since switching to tubes I am in the process of moving the electronics to a hallway closet (for more ventilation) that just happens to be behind the speaker wall, so now I will be able to shorten the cable runs and will run the speaker wire through the wall (from the closet to the speakers). If you have such a closet behind one of your short walls this may be an option that should give you more leeway with your wife in regard to other concerns. Other option are using a nice freestanding wardrobe or credenza for the gear. The addition of a subwoofer with crossovers (if you do not already use one) might also increase your ability to tune the bass and mid-bass to the room by experimenting with placement of the subwoofer. Start collecting vintage wool blankets from the railroads or by Hudsom Bay and proudly display them in the living room (I did and my wife doesn't even suspect the reason why:-). If you can afford it down the line look into one of the computerized equalizers for you system (I forgot the name of the most popular one, but their is a thread on this site about this). If you have a spare work or guest room that houses the computer, this might be another option, you can then listen to music while going through the for sale items at Audiogon (just don't have any guests that are not into this hobby - your mother and mother-in-law excepted).