You get what you earn. You get what you accept. If audio is important earn the money so the family does not suffer and then do not buy into WAF. It is important to you and if you are a good and loyal spouse/parent/partner/lover/friend she will see that you get your toys! Be patient with the purchases however. Do not constantly upgrade or change out. Find a good system and only upgrade on an irregular interval. It would be nice to involve her and/or the children. My son (soon to be 22) wants my system! In other words be realistic and responsible. Your system is for the music not vice versa. Alternatively...do not get married.