Mrtennis, the "offer" you put forth, which implies asking for help among people you consistently alienate brings to mind two of Rodney Dangerfield's more famous lines...
"I remember getting lost at the beach when I was a kid and asking the cop on the boardwalk if we would find my parents--and he said, "I don't know, kid, there are so many places they could hide."
"I don't get no respect. As a kid, when I played hide-and-seek, and they wouldn't even look for me."
"I remember getting lost at the beach when I was a kid and asking the cop on the boardwalk if we would find my parents--and he said, "I don't know, kid, there are so many places they could hide."
"I don't get no respect. As a kid, when I played hide-and-seek, and they wouldn't even look for me."