Hi you may want to try to use this program to help you with placement of your speakers. http://www.hunecke.de/en/calculators/loudspeakers.html
Cut and paste it to your browser.
I too have a similar problem to yours. My room is 13 x 14 feet with a 14 foot ceiling. The first thing I found was that the speakers have to be on the shortest end of the room. Or the end furthest from the door that enters that room and shortest in width. I tried my speakers on the long wall and I did not have good success. I also found that a room that small is not very good for bass when using some full range speakers that go below 35Hz and that can vary. I spent over 3 years looking for speakers that sound good in my Box Of a Room and I ended up with Spica TC60's and 2-Dali Suite 1.2 Acoustic Suspension Subs. The Spicas are rear ported but you can compensate for that in several ways. The subs were the hardest to place. I first had them between the speakers and the outcome was not consistent. Sometimes boomy, sometimes not much bass and sometimes just right.
Mr. Bau told me to move the subs closer to my listening position. This improved things. That helped but I needed them to be even closer. Because I didn't have any wall sockets nearby I could not move the subs closer to me from the front so I moved the subs behind the loveseat. I was instructed to put the phase to "0" and turn the subs half way of what they were when I had them in the opposite end of the room. This amounted to be about a 1/4 turn and my crossover was set to the lowest setting about 40 or 50Hz. I don't know what happened but my system was transformed. The bass tightened up tremendously and even though the subs were behind the loveseat I didn't notice they were there.
I used this as a guidline to place my subs: Mr. Bau shared this with me:
For inverting subs - place them near the speakers.
For non-inverting subs - place them near the listener.
With the phase set to Zero this worked out beautifully.
The other thing you can do to control bass is have some filters made to control the bass on your main speakers. The filters makes your speakers roll off where you want them too and then the subs take over and to their thing.
Vandersteen sells filters for it's speakers. I also don't know if you can do this for a solid state amp. I have all tube gear and it does work. I had Alon I MKII, VonSchweikert VR3, Living Voices, Athena 2's, Wharfedale, and may other speakers and I could not control the bass or it overwhelmed my room. The Spica TC60 or T50 with The Dali Suite Acoustic suspension 12" Subs worked.
This may be more difficult to do if you have an integrated amp. I have tried every trick to control the bass and this worked best for me so far. I also used the speaker placement guide included at the beginning to place my Spica TC 60's which helped allot. If you don't find your speakers on the list try to find a speaker with similar characteristics as your. If you have a floor speaker choose a floor speaker, etc. Place them according to the directions and see if you hear a differnce. Next, I will do the wall treatments. I'm very satisfied with my outcome but remember your small room cannot support a speakers going down low in the bass region. You have to tame it and control it as best you can.
I hope this helped you some.