I didn’t read all the posts...
Perhaps these components are not working well with each other...
Tame the room...many products available.. A few traps go along way.
Get rid of the monster conditioner....will more than likely hurt the sound - I made that mistake as well.
I am very happy with Shunyata power products.
I would suggest Cardas Golden Cross cables...probably one of the warmest cable out there. BUT Knowing what I know now I wouldn’t try to force my system into something it’s not.
Building a system takes patience...trail and error.
I would chose one piece like speakers or an amp that you really like and then try components that work well with that choice.
Good Luck !!!