I will just say one thing: Moonglum, your statement that the tonearm and plinth resonate separately even if they are locked rigidly together is kind of an oxymoron; if they resonate separately, then the goal of tying them together rigidly has not been met. And in fact, I think a lot of designs are imperfect like that. It takes a very substantial structural linkage to achieve the proper resonant unity.
I also think that if you bolt an outboard armpod to a rigid shelf and also bolt the plinth to the same shelf, you are doing the right thing. The last photo I saw of Halcro's TT101 set-up looked to me like he was doing that; it looked excellent in fact.